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National Coming Out Day
Your voice matters! Whether you’re coming out, inviting in, or just being true to yourself, your story is powerful.
We will not be silenced! In this dark moment when our rights are under attack, we are celebrating our light. Our joy is powerful. Our creativity is resistance. Every story is a message of hope and a promise that we’re not going anywhere!
We’re here — together — telling the stories that change the future. Join the movement and share yours!
Join Us to Support LGBTQ+ Communities
NCOD - HRC Speak Out Town Hall
Watch a video replay of HRC President Kelley Robinson and special guests as we kicked off NCOD 2025 with stories, connection and energy to carry us through a weekend of action and beyond!
Share YOUR Story in HRC’s One Million Voices Campaign
Add your voice to our nationwide movement to mobilize 1 million LGBTQ+ people and allies. Every story matters — especially yours!
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Grab Your NCOD T-Shirt
What’s a holiday without merch? Snag your NCOD tee and wear it proudly at your local events!
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Post Your Coming Out Story
Whether you’re coming out, inviting in, or just being true to yourself, your story is powerful. Join the movement and post your coming out story!
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NCOD Art Exhibition
Inspired by Keith Haring’s iconic NCOD artwork, we’re inviting artists to reimagine its bold spirit for today’s movement. All mediums welcome — show us how you celebrate courage, love and visibility.
Browse art submissions in our exhibition gallery that show what NCOD means for our community.
Race, ethnicity, language, religion, culture, gender expression, sexual orientation and gender identity should never be barriers to us living our full lives. Coming out or inviting someone in is a personal choice and is often a significant part of reclaiming this right and living in our identity publicly. We all deserve the right to live our lives genuinely, completely and honestly.
Visit our Coming Out Resources Center and check out our resources for living openly at home, at work, and in your community.
Coming Out At Work
We’ve created a resource of questions to ask your employer and things to think about if you are considering coming out at work.
“Coming Out” vs. “Inviting In”
“Coming Out” has been the common term for someone who acknowledges being LGBTQ+ and it is used throughout our resources. However, it is important to note that this language centers the persons we are coming out to rather than us. It gives the impression that people who don’t identify as cisgender or heterosexual are hiding something from society, rather than acknowledging how homophobia and transphobia create an unwelcoming environment. When publicly identifying as LGBTQ+, you are inviting people into a part of your life that should be protected and celebrated. You are not asking for permission to be you. You control the narrative, and who and what you allow into your life.
Remember, you are not alone. No matter where you are in your journey, we wish you a full, rich, authentic life — a life free from bias, discrimination and hate — and we are working hard every single day to make sure that is a reality for you and for everyone. We are gonna build a world where every LGBTQ+ person can be healthy, safe, liberated, celebrated and joyful in every area of our lives — without exception. Let’s do it together.
The History of National Coming Out Day
The first National Coming Out Day, organized by Jean O’Leary and Dr. Robert Eichberg with the National Coming Out Day organization, was observed on October 11, 1988, the first anniversary of the National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights.
In 1993, the National Coming Out Day organization merged with us, formally known as the Human Rights Campaign Fund. We created the National Coming Out Project in 1996, which is part of our ongoing work that goes beyond the activities on October 11 to provide resource guides and information to people who are coming out or those interested in understanding the journey.
During the first few years of the project, Artist Keith Haring contributed his 1988 famous image of a person stepping out of the closet to our project and it continues to be a staple in supporting our work providing resources to the LGBTQ+ community.
Our History with NCOD from Cornell University!
HRC x Keith Haring for NCOD!
Celebrate all who have come out as LGBTQ+ with our exclusive Keith Haring T-Shirt. Haring was an American pop artist/activist and part of the legendary NYC art scene in the 1980s and he contributed this artwork to us in 1993.